When you want to know how to pick up girls online, you have to pick your battles carefully…because there are tens of thousands of profiles on hundreds of sites, making online dating more of a maze than an easily digestable thing. In fact, the vast majority of men CAN’T tell the forrest from the trees anymore: when to message a woman, when NOT to message her, what to pay attention to?

The result: they WASTE countless hours doing NOTHING online. Wasting time while meeting women online is more deceptive than it sounds: time flies by when you’re easily distracted, and I’d like to give you 3 time SAVING tips that will PREVENT you from losing focus and doing what you came there to do in the first place, which is meeting interesting women.

How To Pick Up Girls Online Tip #1: Only One Photo, Is a No-No
There are truckloads full of women who only upload ONE, single photo and put it on their profile, and an equal amount of men sending them messages. And those men are all, simple and plain, as smart as my shoe size. Because when a woman only uploads ONE photo of herself for the entire planet to see, off course she’ll upload the most stunning photo of herself she can find, probably the best one ever made if she wants to meet a man.

Why? Think about it: if you can only fire one shot at the enemy when you’re at war, off course you’ll fire the most state of the art assault rifle you can find and not a near zero result musket that shoots blanks.

A woman will upload a photo that shows her from the best angle. Do you understand what this means? It means she can only DISAPPOINT in real life, because in real life, sooner or later the world WON’T show her from the best angle possible.

When a woman has MULTIPLE photos on her profile on the other hand, you can COMPARE the good, the bad and the ugly and you’ll have a pretty sound idea of what she REALLY looks like. When that doesn’t disappoint, good for you, you can go ahead and meet her without worrying too much about how she looks.

Women with several photos tend to NOT disappoint because you can compare, so avoid breaking your own heart because that one, single photo was a misrepresentation of who she truly is.

How To Pick Up Girls Online Tip #2: Did You See When She Was Last Online?
Most would-be womanizers online just randomly send messages to random women without even taking a close look at their profile, and it’s a HUGE MISTAKE. That’s one of those online date tips I’ll never give you, because it’s not a tip… but a fast ticket to failure.

You see, there are lots of women who AREN’T online every day. When they’re not one for 1 to 2 weeks, it’s no biggie because women have a life of their own too and they may be busy doing other stuff. Plus, they could also be on vacation buddy.

But when a woman hasn’t been online for 3 weeks up to several months? Than a little alarm bell should start to rinkl, because why would she ever be online tomorrow when she wasn’t interested in checking out her profile for all this time?

You can forget it, because chances are she has either lost interest in the site OR has forgotten all about it when she hasn’t been on for 3 weeks or more. This means it’s much better to SKIP all women that were last online more than 3 weeks ago.

Why? Lets do a little numbers game: say it takes you 5 minutes to write a message and you spend 1 hour a day on messaging the women you want, that means you’ll send 12 messages a day. What would happen if you would forget all about checking out when women were last online?

Since the average active v.s inactive rate on most sites is around 50%, that would mean you’re WASTING 3,5 hours a week, which is sending 42 messages with absolutely ZERO effect! Most fellas never realize this, so imagine the consequences of being clueless on a larger timescale: it’s WASTING 182 hours (or 2184 useless messages) every year that you’re online, hours you COULD have spend on messaging women that do check out their profile regularly. So anyone who AVOIDS making this mistake, could learn how to meet and date women much faster than his braindead competition.

How To Pick Up Girls Online Tip #3: Don’t Stall, But Go In, Do Your Thing, And Walk Away
I could never understand why men read a woman’s ENTIRE profile, and I still can’t. It’s an enormous waste of time to check out her events, her blog posts, her friends, her comments, her media and so forth.

Why? Because when you’re meeting women online, you don’t HAVE to talk about every friggin’ thing on that bloody profile of hers. Go in, do your thing, and be gone with the wind.

Since 99% of the messages women receive in their inbox are about how they look (messages like: you’re so pretty, is heaven missing an angel and so on), you’ll stand out based on talking with her about who she IS alone.

How? The easiest way is her INTERESTS: what oh what does she love to do? What are her biggest passions, her hobbies, her favorite pass times, her likes? Then pick the one you can easily talk about, give it a twist and TEASE her with it. If she likes pasta for example, I playfully tease her by asking her if she’s a wannabe mobster and how do I know her uncle isn’t called the Don.

And neeext! I always enter the profile, see if she’s attractive looking, see when she was last online, see her interests, message her about the one I can give a twist to the fastest, and I’m gone. No listening to her favorite songs, no scrolling through all her friends, no comment stalking or reading every word on her profile – I read what I can use, use it, and that’s it.

Another BLUNDER the vast majority of men make is that even when they AREN’T distracted by all the fancy pantsy words, lights and ornaments on a woman’s profile, they hang around more than a stalker does.

Say the girl just doesn’t have an interest on her profile you can do something with: maybe her hobbies are all dusty, or maybe you yourself can’t think of any darn thing. Then DON’T try to FORCE a message out of yourself by saying something just so you said at least something, because even if she DOES reply to your lame message? Then you’ll still bite the dust at second base my friend.

Off course ALL women will be challenging to send a message to at first, but it gets easier over time. I’m not saying you should SKIP all profiles that present you with a challenge, I’m saying go for it when you can think of something within 10 minutes and LEAVE when you can’t. Don’t stick around – walk away.

Don’t be like the rest of the men out there that spend 30 minutes on messaging one woman, because if that one woman just so happens to NOT reply to your message? Then it’s much like throwing half an hour in the trash can, for fun.

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To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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