Today my dating blog Win With Women turned 2 years old. And to celebrate, we’ve made a special birthday gift with your name on it. Keep reading to learn more…

Technically, Win With Women just turned 3 years old, because I first started giving dating advice to friends and online in the third week of January, 2008.

However, the blog as you see it before you today, my coaching sessions, the Simple Inner Game System, a team of dedicated people and so on didn’t come into existence until the third week of January, 2009.

And as you can read in the story of how we got started, it took a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get where we are today. But we took action anyway.

We always tell you to take action if you want to make it in this world, and if you’ve read our story? You’ll know that we practice what we preach.

We’ve defeated lots of enemies, both internal and external. And Win With Women has helped at least 603 men approach 10,854 women, get 2,713 phone numbers, and go on 904 dates. If not more. All during the last couple years.

These past couple years have been a crazy ride for all of us. Who would have thought a 2-year old toddler could teach you so much about yourself, life, women, and dating?

Now, let’s take a quick moment to look at some of Win With Women’s finest and worst moments…

Most Memorable Moments of Win With Women

1) In April 2010, I heard through the grapevine that feminists were claiming me and other dating gurus were teaching men to manipulate women, that my teachings were sexually biased because I tell guys dominance is a male trait, and so on. Instead of letting it slide, I replied, and my reply in which I described what’s wrong with feminism made the news all over the world. In my typical sarcastic way, I wrote an angry blog post in which I blew every argument against dating advice for men right out of the water.

2) In May 2010, I decided to dig into the top 10 pick up artists. See, I had heard my pick up artists friend mention this top 10 many times, but I had a gut feeling that something wasn’t right. With help of the Win With Women team, I contacted all the high ranked pick up artists, dating coaches, and dating gurus I could find and discovered that the top 10 pick up artists was one big scam. Many people saluted me for the way I debunked the top 10 myth Joseph Matthews (a.k.a. Thundercat) created in a step-by-step way. And I salute them right back!

3) In November 2010, I got word that dating guru Ross Jeffries and others were actively promoting “women attracting pheromones” and I was sceptical about it. So, I put on my research hat to discover the truth about pheromones. Turns out I was right, they don’t work. As a result I wrote a blog post in which I criticized all promoters for selling products that don’t work and for misleading people. People still wonder what the best part of the blog post was: my arguments and mockery… or the reply from Ross Jeffries himself.

Yes I know.

From the looks of it, one would say we over here at Win With Women seem to be at war…

And we are.

Even though we’ve achieved some major victories (see above), we still have a long way to go if we want to get rid of all the people who claim to be dating gurus… but who, in reality, are out to get your money without giving you something in return.

There are still losers out there that try to scam you with fake products and promises, and I won’t rest until they’re all gone. So expect to see a lot more memorable moments in 2011.

And besides, people are still using “pick up artist language” to talk about women and dating like they’re a computer or something. But they’re not. That’s why the dating game will always be more fun than videogames, or The Game by Neil Strauss.

What a lame book filled with shameless promotional speeches for all the dating gurus that are in there! Anyways, moving on…

The Hardships Win With Women Went Through

We also encountered some rocky roads on our way to giving men no-nonsense tips to improve their love life and social life. Some were just annoying, but one situation was tough for me…

1) In December 2009, disaster struck when multiple circumstances came together to give me one screwed up holiday season. Some family problems that forced me to travel a lot, the costs of keeping the blog online and maintaining it, and an incorrect internet bill of $900 for Win With Women that I had to pay anyway, made me go from doing pretty well for myself to dead broke. The result? I literally had no money left to buy food for two weeks straight. The sole reason I survived was because of my girlfriend buying me dinner.

2) In January 2010, I organized my fist live videostream event ever. We wanted to do a 6 hour long “TV show” about dating and although we tested the crap out of our internet connections and camera, guess what? The camera was acting stranger than fiction during the moment of truth. The result: the video went on – off, on – off, and so on while the audio was doing A okay. Annoying beyond my wildest dreams, but I apologized to everyone that attended the videostream, even though it was free.

3) In January 2011, I did my first teleseminar ever and (again) although everything worked just fine during multiple tests, the teleseminar software went nuts. The result: 2 hours and 15 minutes into the teleseminar, the softwared muted every caller, including me. Meanwhile, I had just asked if anyone had any questions, and because I didn’t hear anyone? I ended the teleseminar. Now is that messed up timing or what? Instead of selling everyone that joined the teleseminar the recordings for a low price, I gave it to them for free to make up for the bugs.

Seems to me like every time we try and do something new, we’re stalked by technical difficulties. Well, tough luck, because I’ll keep on trying new things to help you better. Even if that means I’ll have to throw some computers right out the window.

Hope you enjoyed this quick look at everything that goes on backstage in the offices of Win With Women. And I hope you’ll enjoy our birthday gift even more!

Here’s A Birthday Gift From Win With Women…

Remember that teleseminar I mentioned above? Well, the first hour or so covered so many CRUCIAL insights on how to improve your confidence, and how to really win big in the dating game.

And my birthday gift from me to you is this first hour of the teleseminar. You’ll get it for free.

Don’t worry, the first recorded hour of the teleseminar is pretty good in the quality department. So, what are you waiting for?

Click the link below right now to download the first hour of the teleseminar:

Download The Teleseminar Here

NOTE: Right click with your mouse and select “Save as…”, pick a location on your computer, and start downloading. This shouldn’t take you longer than a couple minutes.

And if you’ve ever wanted to ask me a question but didn’t know how to, then grab your chance today and ask me anything in the comments.

OR…

Drop a comment below and tell me what you thought the best moments and the worst moments of Win With Women were during the last 2 years.

Oh come on! Just comment and make me feel special on my (our) birthday. Lol! It only takes a minute of your time and I would love to hear from you.

And if you know me a little bit by now, then you already know what I’m going to say:

This coffee junkie is going to make himself some black gold with sweet, sweet sugar again… and if you hear “WOOSH” within the next five minutes?

It means this movie maniac just sprinted past you to steal all your movies, sprint back to his home, and watch them all in one go. That’s what us movie freaks do. We do anything for a movie marathon, so watch your freaking back dude!

One More Thing Everyone At Win With Women Wants To Say…

Thanks so much for believing in us to give you the best dating advice possible, to kick the ass of scam artists all over the planet. And thank you for investing your time and energy into reading our blog posts on a weekly basis.

Don’t hesitate to reach out and talk to me man, because Win With Women makes a point of being available for you. Every day.

Here’s to a 2011 stuffed with awesomeness!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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