Pua Routines: Do They Work? And Do You Need Pua Routines?
The reason pua routines exist is, according to a pua (pick up artist), to make meeting women easier. But do routines really work? The answer may surprise you:
YES, sometimes pua routines are awesome. But quite often, they SUCK.
When it comes to pua routines and whether they work or not in the dating game, I must separate the newbie’s from the guys who’ve been around the block a couple times.
It doesn’t matter which category you fall into right now though, because I promise you:
By the time you’re done reading this post about pua routines?
You’ll know what to do to make meeting women incredibly easy for yourself.
So, let’s get to it!
Pua Routines Meet Newbie’s: Match Made In Heaven Or Not?
If you know me a little longer than this one blog post, it would be easy for you to think that I dislike pua routines because I dislike the pick up artist lingo, methods, and “community”.
But thinking I claim pua routines always suck is thinking in black and white in a world filled with multiple shades of grey, because here’s the BIG SECRET behind routines…
The people I got my game from? They’re “naturals”: people who are naturally good at seducing the opposite sex. They’re the ones who attract women without coming across as forced or fake.
But here’s the thing…
The reason why a “natural” became so damn good at attracting women, is because he transformed his unique situation into a tool that gets him women. He transformed his life into one big pua routine without realizing it.
Examples of “naturally grown” pick up artists:
– The cameraman who makes models fall in love with the camera and then, by helping them out and inspiring them, makes the models fall in love with him
– The fisherman who gives tours of the beautiful bay… and whose boat gets stuck in the middle of the water (I actually know a fisherman that does this)
As you can see, there is a reason why pua routines exist. And in my opinion, they can and will help you out in the short term when you’re a newbie.
Because let’s face it:
If you decided to get the women & dating part of your life handled only recently, then you probably have no freaking clue about how women will respond, and why, when you start talking.
And isn’t that frustrating?
Isn’t that exactly why you decided to get this part of your life handled: to get rid of the insecurities and fears because you have no idea if YOU are wrong or if what you’re doing is wrong?
And this is where pua routines will help you out if you’re a newbie.
Why?
The answer as to why pua routines work well for newbie’s is simple, really:
1) Because a pua routine involves using the same words or techniques over and over, you get all kinds of responses from the women you use it on. After a while though, you’ll start noticing patterns. Similar responses.
2) Once you know the most common responses, you can come up with ways to use those responses to create even more attraction. And that means next time you’re out meeting women? You’ll feel more confident and fearless too, because you know exactly what to expect.
3) Once you start using some successful pua routines, then YES, you can “get the girl”.
And as a guy who just started to improve his dating success, you’ll often get yourself into situations where you don’t know what the hell to say.
That’s where pua routines will prove to be useful to you:
They’re something you can fall back on in worst-case scenarios where an awkward silence almost seems certain to happen… while you do NOT want to lose the girl you’re talking to.
And you have to start somewhere if you want to meet more women, right?
So, you can make meeting women much easier for yourself with routines of pick up artists.
But WAIT! There’s more…
If you feel completely alienated by me now because it almost seems like I’m promoting pick up artists and their pua routines, then you’re gonna LOVE this next part…
There are many circumstances where you’ll fall flat on your face when you use a routine. The longer you try and meet women, the more likely it is that it will happen.
And that’s why I thought I’d write something about pua routines for all “dating pro’s” out there:
Pua Routines Meet The Pro’s: It’s Time To Get Serious…
Once you start getting more and more phone numbers…
And once you start getting a date here and a date there like your middle name is “pick up artist”?
Then you’ll notice how the dating game quickly gets FUCKING BORING if you’re constantly using the same old same pua routines.
Hell, you’ll start feeling like a robot after a while. And that’s where you need to drop the act.
That’s what pick up artists have never understood and probably won’t ever understand:
Using pua routines so you know exactly what to expect from women makes you feel more confident, sure, but it’s temporary. Watch what happens when you get a response you’re NOT familiar with…
Or watch what happens when you stop the pua routines. Feeling insecure again, are you?
A pua routine is merely a crutch for your confidence. It’s not a substitute for it.
And if you truly want to have MASSIVE and LONG TERM success with women? You need to build your confidence from the ground up and pua routines won’t help you do that.
Using pua routines means assuming that all women are alike. They are, but only to a certain extent. For example, being dominant may not work on this chick over here while it works very well on that chick over there.
Why?
Well, the first one may be the youngest child at home and thus feels suppressed, wants to be free, and dominance is the opposite of what she wants.
And the second chick may be the oldest at home and thus the most dominant child, so she needs a taste of her own medicine and responds well to it.
Do you realize what this means?
Pua Routines Could Handicap Your Dating Success!
It means using pua routines is handicapping yourself by only allowing yourself to have success with the kind of girl that responds well to YOUR specific routine.
I’m willing to bet you that, because all women are not made equal, you’ll have a 50% success rate at best when you approach all the girls in a random club and see what’s up.
Meanwhile, guys like me adapt to the situation we’re in, which usually ends in us getting the girl 90% of the time. It’s because we figure out what unsatisfied need a girl has and then cater to that need.
You should start doing the same once you’re ready to get rid of your training wheels:
Your pua routines.
The longer you actively take part in the dating game, the more you realize that it’s not about you. It never was. It’s all about the woman and the psychological needs she has that are still unfulfilled.
The result: even women who have a boyfriend, or who are married, can be attracted to you if they have an unsatisfied psychological need. Know the need… and getting dates is easy.
That’s something pua routines can never teach you, but this blog can! My thanks go out to Cal for giving me the idea to write this blog post.
To More Dating Success,
Carlos Xuma
Win With Women
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