What Do Women Really Think About?
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: During the date
You accidentally looked at the waitress… “Nice, he’s one of those guys. He’s checking her out. How rude! My evening is ruined. He’s a dick!”
You’re staring at her all night long… ”He really likes me. I’m feeling nervous. He’s making me feel like I’m the only woman in the room. He must like me a lot! I’m having the time of my life. He could be The One. “
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first kiss
“This is it. He’s going to kiss me. He better be good. Nice, he’s taking it slow.”
You pulled away and say goodnight… “Wow. He’s such a gentleman. I want to kiss him more.”
You keep on kissing her because you’re starved for romance…”This is nice. Uh oh, he’s coming on too strong. I don’t like this. He’s only after one thing from me. I will stop this now and never see him again. He’s a freak.”
The point is that she’s thinking a variety of things, all the time – and even at the SAME time. Women cannot control the thoughts that often intrude on them, which gives rise to all kinds of weird moody comments, and even some strangely hot/cold behavior that is really confusing.
The point is simply to worry less about WHAT she’s thinking and simply create the most stable, safe situation for her to feel what she’s going to feel. As the saying goes, if you don’t like her mood now, just wait 2 minutes for it to change again…
Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma
